How To Please Your Woman
There is a huge demand for information on giving our partners sexual pleasure.
Interestingly, there seems to be more demand for this information from women than there is from men.
This could represent men’s greater sexual self-confidence, or it could represent the fact that men are sexually lazy and less interested in satisfying their female partners than women are in satisfying their male partners.
It could also represent the very common desire amongst women to placate and please their men by anticipating their sexual needs, even at the expense of their own satisfaction.
However, there need be no shortage of sexual pleasure for either men or women, whether they are in a relationship or not.
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Sexual Pleasure
Of course, when we think of sexual pleasure we usually think of sexual intercourse: after all, most of us have become conditioned to think of intercourse as the obvious route to sexual pleasure.
And yet, for women in particular, sexual intercourse is a very unsatisfactory means of reaching orgasm. We know that a very small minority of women indeed — perhaps as few as 15% — reach orgasm during sexual intercourse.
The majority of women reach orgasm most easily through oral sex or masturbation either by themselves or by their partner.
Men, on the other hand, almost always achieve orgasm through intercourse; they may even achieve orgasm through intercourse more often than they do through oral sex or masturbation by their partner.
Given these well proven facts, it’s obvious that there is a large discrepancy in the means by which men and women are likely to be most sexually pleasured and fulfilled.
An obvious question for anyone seeking greater sexual pleasure and fulfillment is whether or not men and women will experiment with new techniques to obtain sexual pleasure.
Unfortunately, it seems that even in these enlightened days of wider sexual knowledge, women are all too ready to forego their own orgasmic pleasure, either by not insisting on having an orgasm before or after intercourse, or by using masturbation as a means to obtain sexual pleasure when their partner is not around.
It might be stretching the truth a little to say that women put up with intercourse because they know men like it, but somewhere behind that statement lies a grain of truth that represents the disparity between men and women when it comes to obtaining sexual satisfaction and pleasure.
Differences Between The Sexes
For most men, masturbation, oral sex, and sexual intercourse are quite adequate means of dispelling sexual tension, and so there seem to be fewer men than women who are willing to strive for the greatest sexual pleasure that they could achieve.
However, having said that, men do seem to require more novelty to keep a relationship alive. For example, they are more interested in finding the very best sexual positions than women, and trying them out to see how it feels.
Why should this be? When we all know how powerful and rewarding an orgasm can be, why would men not pursue the maximum amount of pleasure that we can possibly achieve with our own bodies?
The fact that you’re reading this page demonstrates that you’re one of the few people who wish to seek the maximum amount of sexual pleasure that you can possibly obtain from your own body.
If you research information on how to get the greatest possible sexual pleasure from the best sex positions, you will find very quickly a theme that comes up again and again:
Extended, mind blowing orgasms.
The aim of all sexual techniques designed to “please a man in bed” or “pleasure a woman during sex” – or however you put it – is the same: to extend the length of an orgasm and deepen and magnify its power, so that the ecstasy which we experience in the normal course of sex for perhaps a few seconds now lasts for minutes, tens of minutes, or perhaps even hours.
Here, where you can learn more abut this, some of the ideas will be new to you, and some will not. Whatever you read here, we hope you will find it fascinating, profitable, and enjoyable, but none of this advice about obtaining massive mind blowing orgasms – and of course, massive, mind blowing pleasure – need interfere with anything that you’re already doing sexually!
You might find that you want to make some changes to ho you enjoy sex as you read through the website: perhaps you’ll change the order in which you enjoy sex — for example, a lot of men really enjoy intercourse much more after their female partner has had an orgasm, so this is one obvious change that you might like to consider as you move through our information. There may be many others!
Part One – The Basics Of Extended, Mind-Blowing Orgasms
You block out the least 99% of the sensory input available to you? It sounds amazing, but as human beings we live in a confusing and hectic world: we have no choice but to block out much of the sensory input we receive.
If we were consciously aware of every sound, sight, taste, smell, and feeling available to us we would be overwhelmed and literally unable to function.
Most of our sensory inputs are filtered out long before they reach the conscious mind; by definition we’re not aware of the sensory input that is filtered by our brains. And while that’s a great thing for our survival, it does have its downsides.
For example, filtering sensory input becomes so second nature to the human being that much of this sensuous and sensory input associated with sensual experiences such as sex is lost to us as well.
Most obviously, you have very little awareness of your body for most of the time: it’s only those things that are out of the ordinary, such as the sudden itch, or an unpleasant smell, that penetrate your consciousness. And yet the paradox here is that to have the greatest sexual experiences, you need to be fully aware of your body.